Anna is Alan's sister, who passed away 8 years ago today due to complications from a disease called Lupus. She was 15. Our family had a dinner in honor of Anna a few nights ago, where we shared memories and thoughts about her.
Malia, the mother of several of my siblings-in-law (including Anna), shared some very tender feelings with the family. Among them, she noted how grateful she was that I was able to be there that day at the hospital for my dear friend and future sister-in-law, Amanda. I had no clue that I would be joining the Stout clan at that time. But, I feel that that day was, in a way, a tender mercy from the Lord. I had the opportunity to be there for one of my dearest friends, and at the same time I got a glimpse at the faith and love of a family that I would one day join. It is not likely that any others that marry into the Stout family will have had a chance to know Anna. I did, however. I love her, and I love her family that I am now a part of. I don't think I have ever told Amanda this, but that day was one of the most significant days of my life. I thank her for letting me be a part of it.
It was also about this time that my cousin Sara passed away from complications of a seizure several years ago. She loved laughing and mothering, and she filled up a room with joy. I have been thinking about Sara lately. Maybe it's because my husband was recently diagnosed with a seizure disorder, too. Maybe it's because Easter is this weekend. Either way, I know that because the Savior was resurrected, we will be too. Sara and Anna still live, and I know that they are continuing to accomplish the Lord's work, just in a different sphere.
9 comments:
Thanks for sharing your thoughts Jenny, it's really neat that you could be apart of that experience.
Amen. I feel the same way about my Anna.
I love you, Jenny.
The Resurrection means so much to all of us, but it somehow seems a little more personal to see a specific face we are waiting for.
And yes, it is a great blessing that you knew her. It is one part of the Stouts that others won't get to be a part of. I feel blessded Matt knew my dad, too.
I remember those difficult days of Anna's passing. I never had the opportunity to know Anna, but one memory I do have is just a few days after she passed away several us from seminary council came over to send our sympathies. What an amazing family the Stouts are. The spirit was present and the home was filled with hope and peace. I am glad I know the Stouts, as well.
Wow! Your comments are so tender and sweet. Very beautifully written. (You made me cry. No surprise there!)
What a very nice tribute to Anna and our cousin Sarah. Thanks, Jen.
Sorry to hear about Alan's medical trouble. Hope it doesn't bother him much. Thanks for that lovely thought.
Very good post, Jenny. I certainly miss Sarah.
Loola,
thanks so much for sharing your thoughts about that. It means a lot to me and I am so grateful you got to meet our sweet sister. You have always een such a sweet friend and been there when I needed you most. I love you so much!
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